14 Reasons Why That Ex Keeps Sending You Messages

When you love someone so much, it’s really tough to try and get over them. I remember the first time a girl ever broke up with me, I felt, I couldn’t live again. Damn, I loved this girl so much that, there was one time, I knew I loved her more than my own mother but when someone says they don’t want to date you again you just have to move on.

When you break up with someone, you wouldn’t expect to hear from them, not even a tex message or a whatsapp message Sometimes, it’s really annoying to get a text message from your ex and they make moving on becomes really difficult.

But then, there are reasons, why your ex is still texting you. Ghbase.com shares with  you 15 reasons why your ex is still texting you. Please use our next buttons to run through the list.

#1 They do it out of habit. Yeah, there are times waking up and texting or what sapping you a “good morning” is a habit they just can’t let go.

#2 They miss you. You can blame them for missing you. You certainly had some good times, before the break up happened, so by texting you, they want to hear from you.

#3 They heard you have someone new. Yes, is it not surprising that, your ex texts you just when you found someone new. When your ex hears you found someone, they just want to know more and compare themselves to your new ex

#4 Something reminded them of you. From time to time, if I see something that reminds me of an inside joke with my ex, I might snap a picture and send it to them. This is an innocent reason to text an ex that doesn’t always have a deeper meaning.

However, if it’s frequent and stirs up a lot of conversation on their part, then they may be trying to rekindle some feelings by sending you things that remind them of the two of you.

#5 It’s cold they don’t have a cuddle buddy. Several studies have shown that, most people get in relationships during the rainy seasons, just so they can bare the cold with someone. So if you ex is still texting you especially around that time, then it means, they still don’t have anyone to kill the cold with and are actually hoping to see if you are thinking likewise.

#6 They still have feelings for you. When the text messages or whatsapp messages are that frequent, then it means they still have feelings for you although you’ve broken up with them. So if you also still have feelings for him/her, you can can advantage and get back.

#7 They want to win you back. This goes hand in hand with the previous reason. They could be texting you to spark up a conversation that may lead to them trying to win you back. This reason can be blatantly obvious because they’ll ask you out on dates and compliment you like crazy.

#8 They want to annoy you. If you dumped this ex, they could be texting you just to make you angry. They could be really upset, angry, and frustrated with your decision to end things and want to annoy you with their babble as much as possible

#9 For reassurance. If you ended on good terms with your ex, there’s a good chance they’re going to text you for some positive reassurance in their life sometimes. If the two of you are still friends, they could text to ask your advice, reassure themselves if their ego has been shot, or just to get your opinion on certain things.

#10 They have problems letting go. Some people have a lot of issues with accepting things are over. They have problems with letting someone important to them go and are trying to hold on for dear life.

#11 For explanations–for the 100th time. If you dumped them and they’re still texting you, it could be because they’re still looking for more explanations as to why because they just don’t know what they did wrong. No matter how many times you tell them why things didn’t work out, they might keep coming back, because to them that reason isn’t good enough so get ready for some more deeper explanations.

#12 They’re still holding onto hope. They could also be texting you because they’re holding on to a thread of hope you’ll want to get back together with them, and they’re just waiting for that one message to get through to you.

#13 Their friends are all in relationships, and they’re feeling lonely. Let’s be real, when your friends are all coupled up, it makes you want to couple up with someone too. And if you don’t have anyone, who would you turn to? Probably your ex.

#14 To leave the connection open. If your ex is that texter sending a few messages a week and then you don’t hear from them the rest of the time, chances are they’re trying to keep that connection open for when they find it convenient. They don’t want to go too long without contacting you for fear you’ll completely move on.

Your ex might still be sending you messages all the time but once you have an idea of the reasons why they are doing that, it makes things a bit easier. Drop your comments below

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